I first realised something wasn’t right with my health when I noticed that the lymph nodes in my neck had become severely swollen. The swelling prompted me to see my GP, who, at first, suggested a watch-and-wait approach. However, when the swelling became even worse, I went back as soon as possible. After that, I was referred to haematology where I was diagnosed with stage 2 Hodgkin lymphoma.
From my first GP appointment to my diagnosis, it took two months and two weeks to be officially diagnosed. I had ABVD chemotherapy for six months, but sadly it didn’t work. I’m now starting GDP chemotherapy and an autologous stem cell transplant, which I’m hoping will cure me.
These treatments have been hard both physically and mentally, but it has also made me value what truly matters most – especially my family, friends and health.
The impact and challenges of my cancer
Having cancer has shown me how strong I can be, especially when I keep a positive mindset. I’ve also been sharing my experience on TikTok to help others going through something similar feel less alone. I hope it makes some of the unknown a little less scary.
One of my biggest challenges has been feeling like life is on pause. Not being able to work or do the things I usually enjoy, like going to gigs or travelling, has been really difficult.
The best way I’ve found to cope is by spending time with the people I care about and always having something small planned to look forward to – whether that’s going shopping or going for a walk with friends.
Raising awareness for quicker diagnoses
Raising awareness is really important to me because it can mean the difference between being diagnosed early, giving a much better chance with treatment, and being diagnosed later.
I think young people often know when something isn’t right with their bodies because they’re generally quite aware of changes at that age. That’s why, when a young person notices something unusual or wrong, they should be listened to and taken seriously.
My main advice is don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself. Even if you worry about being annoying or over the top, always push for what you believe is right - no one knows your body better than you do.
